Lu will make your day

刚刚回到家中，估计是最后一次可以悠闲的在家呆上个十天半月了。刚从citigroup的苦海中逃亡出来，忽然感觉无所事事，但我还是不会原谅那些天杀的让我一个人折700封信。

 

是啊，该干些什么呢？安娜又不让我出门（哈哈开玩笑）。。。最近发现此人的华文还是非常了得，所以不敢乱写:)

 

 

Singapore, Shanghai, Bangkok, NYC, Montreal, NYC...

 

We will always be separated by half a day.

 

Thank you. Thank you God for putting us through the test. I give my all to believe that this is your way of making us stronger.

 

Your child will not disapoint you.

my darling is leaving in 6 hour's time...

 

it marks the beginning of our 8-month separation (not counting the short visits i'm going to make), and I'm kinda worried becoz her mandarin... (still cant believe she's from Hwa Chong) ok just some early morning entertainment:

 

She: i think during the past one month my chinese has improved quite a bit, it's like....飞黄腾达

Me: did u mean 突飞猛进？

She: oh yah hor... (blush)

Me: ...

 

Ok the truth is....i'm really gonna miss her...and i need all ur blessings to help us make it through this:)

To all those who curse at this relationship or eager to see us breaking up, whether I know u or not, dream on.

 

Do I look like I freaking care about whatever shit coming out from your mouths?

 

FUCK U ALL.

I'm sinking...slowly sinking into what is beyond my capability to mount an unscathed escape. While I enjoy the shower of happiness at the touch of my finger, I'm scared, scared of all that's lying ahead of us; scared of the imminent separation; scared of the worlds of differences that used to separate us that might make a comeback.

 

I'm slowly learning to protect and nourish this world of our own, this tender sweet world that revolves only around, us. For all that matters, I thank Him for this beautiful serendipity. Like you, baby, I was scared of attachment and commitment; but for the bliss that is so within my reach, I choose us, I choose to believe God is on my side.

 

Nobody thought we would, and nobody think we will, make it. Stay with me, baby, not to prove them wrong, but to complete this amazingly lovely world of our own.

感谢大家这几年（其实刚刚一年）对这个空间的大力支持，很多留言都曾让我很感动。现在只想告诉大家一声我新开了一个blog，地址是http://luisheretomakeyourday.blogspot.com, 主要用来发表一些较为激烈的言辞:), 有空也请多来捧捧场。现在的空间还会继续用，因为毕竟大家都用这个！哈哈，多谢了！

最近闲来无事，于是夜夜挑灯追看亚运会，看着看着就看出一点别扭来。

 

这个别扭主要来自观看乒乓球和羽毛球的比赛。不知大家是否注意到，每场比赛结束后双方运动员互相握手时都显得极为不情愿，不仅带着你欠我钱的表情，从不正眼看对方，而且握个手也是点到为止，有的甚至只是手掌互相碰一下就算完事儿，整个就是一对待阶级敌人的架势，好像握手稍微诚恳一点就会被判个反革命通敌什么的。

 

我们亚洲人这是怎么了？虽然场上各自为主，比赛都打完了还较的什么劲？经常看国际比赛的人一定都有印象，欧美的运动员在比赛结束后都会非常真诚的与对手交流，显出对彼此的尊重。比如说网球大满贯，就算是像费天王和纳达尔这样“一生的对手”，不管谁输谁赢赛后都是拥抱互贺，那种英雄相惜的翩翩风度让人肃然起敬。

 

有人可能说这是文化的问题，我不认为。尊重对手是比赛不可或缺的一部分，而这首先就要从一个真诚有力的握手开始。希望两年后的奥运这种情况会有所改观，不要再让欧美运动员嘲笑我们亚洲人没风度。

 

（以前代表RJ参加高中田径赛时我也从不主动跟人家握手，尤其是我们的死敌ACJC。倒是他们的运动员每次赛后会找我握手，让我慢慢改变了自己的看法。后来在大学里我也学会了在一场酣畅淋漓的比赛后，伸出我的右手，向我的对手说一声："hey, that was a nice race, good job man!"）